Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Soft & Fluffy Bantu Knot Out

Heyyyy Y'all!! Hope you had a great holiday weekend!
Recently I did a post about refreshing a flat twist out by doing a Bantu Knot out. It was the first time I was doing a Bantu Knot out since my big hair days and I wasn't sure if I'd like it. To my surprise I like it, no, I LOVED it! So of course I had to take another crack at it. This time I used the Taliah Wajjid Protective Mist Bodifier (Leave-in), my Shea butter mix, EVOO, and of course water in a spray bottle when needed. 



The Process

On damp hair I created a side part in the front like I do with most of my styles. Parted into four sections then 4-5 "knot sections" per section. When working on a "knot section" I worked in some of the leave-in followed by Shea butter (only on ends) then finishing with the EVOO (worked for me but a different order might work for others). Next, I used my Denman brush to smooth out my strands, my hair was already detangled. Once twisted I secured each knot with a bobby pin. If your hair is longer you probably won't need any though. 

The Results

My hair obtained better hold while feeling soft, fluffy and moisturized! Great results without any styler, gel or puddings. Plus! I love it. Comment with your thoughts/suggestions for next time! 

Love you for reading ;-*

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

My Regimen: What I do when

Pre-Poo: Once a month before a shampoo

Shampoo: Once a month. (Clarifying shampoo)

Co-Wash: Once a week 

Deep Condition: Every time I cleanse (Cowash/shampoo) 

Protein Treatment: Once a month 

LCO: After every cleanse & before styling. 

Oils I use:
Extra Virgin Olive Oil, Coconut Oil, Jojoba Oil, Wild Growth Hair Oil

Oil Rinse: When needed

Clip Ends: When needed

NO HEAT!!!!!!!! 



Monday, May 19, 2014

7 Tips for Length Retention

Happy Monday Curlfriends!!
Over the weekend I decided to do a random length check because I felt my hair was a bit longer than it was when I checked it in the beginning of last month and it turns out I was right! The pic from this month isn't level to the pic from last month so the difference isn't as great as it seems but by the placement of my finger, you can see it's lower on my nose. =D I haven't taken any growth supplements or vitamins yet (I plan to start in June) and my hair is still flourishing at it's own pace! So here's some tips that I've found helpful in keeping my hair healthy and retaining length!

1. Utilize Protective Styling.
From my first BC in 2010 I learned that protective styling was very important to keeping my hair from breaking. It helped me keep my hands out of my hair minimizing stress and friction on my hair strands. It also kept my ends tucked away in most cases, protecting them from being dry and brittle and losing moisture. 

2. Deep Conditioning goes a long way!
When I was relaxed I'd only get a deep condition when I got a touch up or my next relaxer and I loved a good deep condition but now that I'm natural??? I realize it's a pretty good idea to deep condition with every wash! As long as you're balancing with a protein treatment when needed, deep conditioning won't harm but only help to keep hair moisturized, soft and supple. However, if your aren't balancing with a protein treatment, your hair will feel gummy from over conditioning which can cause more damage then you intended.

3. Hair is protein, you NEED protein! 
As I said in the last tip you MUST balance between moisture (dep conditioning) and protein! Protein treatments keep your hair strong and help to strengthen the strand's ability to retain moisture therefore keeping the hair soft, moisturized and easier to manage. As with deep conditioning, if you're only doing the one process you'll cause more damage. If you're only using protein conditioners or treatments your hair will become dry, brittle and will easily break.

4. Handle with care.
Being rough when handling your hair is NOT the way to go! You must be gentle at all times. Our hair is naturally fragile and when we handle it roughly we're only making things worse. A good note is checking the condition of your fingernails. Make sure you have not snags, hangnails or chipped nail polish. I've snagged my hair a number of times before I realized my nails were in bad shape for hair handling. 

5. Hot Oil Treatments!
There's nothing like a good hot oil treatment. It helps to lubricate dry, flaky, itchy scalp as well as hair strands. A good hot oil treatment will help minimize friction between hair strands resulting in less knotting and breakage. I try to do one once a month or more (in the winter).

6. Say NO to heat! 
Heat in nature is drying and direct heat in the hair is a strain no matter how much you try to protect the hair. (In my experience) I currently use NO heat in my regimen. After my first BC I straightened my hair every 6 months with little hair damage but I still had to put work in to make my hair feel as it did before applying heat. I'm noticing a no hear regimen us working a lot better for me! 

7. Be Patient. 
I often talk about our mindset toward our hair. It can get frustrating when your hair is shorter than the girl with 3c hair who did her BC 2 months after you did..lol BUT stay patient, have fun and love YOUR hair and YOUR journey through it all. You'll see results and you'll know when you're getting it right for YOU! 

Love you much for reading!! 

Friday, May 16, 2014

Bantu Knot Takedown/Styling


Very briefly, I LOVE the way my hair feels after doing twisted Bantu knots the other day! The combo of the Taliah Wajjid Leave-in and EVOO did the trick!! However, I should have: 1. Used a setting lotion, gel or foam to get better definition/hold for curl. 2. Did smaller sections for more definition. 3. Taken them out on a day when it wasn't raining! :-( 

Regardless, of these minor glitches I was happy that my hair was completely detangled and I could get it into a puff effortlessly!! It's been awhile. =D As a result I'll probably buy the Taliah Wajjid product again, go figure! 

Love you for reading! ;-*

Thursday, May 15, 2014

My Two Cents: Texture Discrimination

So recently one of my favorite YT Naturals, Jouelzy, did a video on texture discrimination. Now this topic may not concern you if your hair texture has an undeniable presence in the natural hair community but if you're like me and other 4c ladies, you search and search for realistic results to common styles, methods etc and have a hard time.


Marketing & Products

In the natural community products are marketed with bouncy curls in mind as if a product can change your hair texture from the infamous Florida Evans to Shirley Temple curls. (Lol) Clearly I'm exaggerating but it's marketing like this that makes it hard for us 4c chicks to know when a product works for our hair. 


YouTube 

I often talk about how instrumental YT was in my decision to grow my natural hair and learning what and what not to do, however the presence of ladies with looser curl patterns is far more prominent than ladies of courser, tighter curl patterns. Once I started looking for ladies with hair that looked and behaved like my own I saw as felt reaults from my hair. Without ladies like Jouelzy, 4C Hair Chick(Trudy), and Blakizbeautyful (Jenell B. Stewart) and my own trial and error I might have gone back to the creamy crack! *gasp* Girrrllll, did she just say that? Yes I did! Lol. I made I through though. So much so, that I went as fat as rechopping to start over healthier! =D


So my two cents?...

If you have courser, thicker, tighter coiled hair SHARE your journey as muh as possible! Help your Sistas out that can't find themselves in the natural hair community! The struggle is real when you're not sure what the heck to do..lol! Let's continue to make the kinky chicks voice be heard! And that's  all I have to say about that.

Love you for reading, Stay Blessed! 

Jouelzy's Video - http://youtu.be/fggV0oVNhm8

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Transforming Third Day Hair: Bantu Knot Out

HEY CURLIES!!
So as you know I had a bomb flat twist out for Mother's Day and I rocked it out for three days but guess what my hair was dry and crispy by then (eww!). Being that I'm breastfeeding and  potty training and doing a plethora of other things with my kids I didn't have the time to do a wash day but it was definitely ime for some moisture and coil refreshing! So what'd I do? I got out a leave in and some olive oil and went to work! 


Products:
 Taliah Wajjid Protective Mist Bodifier (leave-in)
• EVOO (Extra Virgin Olive Oil) to seal

Tools:
• Clips
• Bobby Pins (to hold knots in place on shorter/thicker hair like mine) 
• Combs (if needed) 


The Process: 

1. Split hair into four sections. 
2. Part each section into 4 or more sections (depending on hair thickness/desired curl)
3. Apply leave-in and work through parted section.
4. Apply EVOO and work through parted section.
5. Two strand twist. 
6. Twist between fingers.
7. Bantu knot.
8. Pin if needed/desired. 


About the leave-in:

I have used this product in the past on wet/damp hair and it DID NOT provide the moisture I wanted or was expecting. In this style I applied on dry hair and sealed with the EVOO in hopes that I'll get different results. Stay tuned for the take down and results post! 

As always thanks for reading! 


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Monday, May 12, 2014

Mother's Day 2014: Flat Twist Out on my TWA

So first and foremost HEY CURLIES!! I hope all of you curly, coily an kinky mamas enjoyed your weekend of love and celebration!! What a great Mother's Day I had! And the fact that my hair was on point made it even better..LOL! So here are my results...If you follow or friend me on any social network you obviously saw this yesterday. However, I didn't mention products or any other details so if you wanted to know here comes the info.

Tools
• tail comb
• Denman brush
• clips (to hold hair out of the way)
• spray bottle (I twisted on damp hair and spritzed if it got too dry)


Products for twisting 
• ORS smooth n hold pudding 
• Jane Carter Nourish and Shine 
• homemade Shea butter mix (I was running out of my Jane Carter) 




So about this pudding! I don't really use puddings or hold product because my hair usually hold twisted styles pretty well with just a butter BUT without another pudding to compare this one to, I'd have to say it meets my expectations. Great hold and smoothing ability, doesn't leave my hair feeling crunchy nor does it flake or leave that ugly white residue! This was my second time using this product for my flat twists and I am pleased. It does the job for me. Of course like a true product junkie, I'll try other puddings now to compare and find a favorite to add to my staple products. If I had to give this pudding a rating however, it would receive 4 out of 5 thumbs up.

Thanks for Reading as Always!


Thursday, May 8, 2014

TBT: My First Natural Hair Video

So here's my quick TBT post. Ahhh!! Back when I first started my natural hair jouney! Check it out.



http://youtu.be/8XO7yjYkYHU

Monday, May 5, 2014

Natural Hair Community Rant

Hey Natural Sistas!

So it's been a minute since I've posted about the natural hair community and I wanted to address some things that I've seen lately on Facebook. If you are into joining natural hair groups like myself you've noticed that Facebook has a number of natural hair group pages where black women share everything from styles to products, methods etc. At first I loved them until I started to see arguments in comments and blatant disrespect for women who had come to the group with a common interest.  I know, I know those darn social networks! Lol. However we may feel about the internet and drama it is a great tool to share ideas and experiences, but there are some things that seriously bother me about black women and how we communicate with each other at times.

Why the attitude?

As black women, black people period, we are high spirited and passionate but there is a thin line between getting your point across with passion and just being plain nasty. On a number of occasions I have seen women argue over something as simple as slicking or not slicking edges. No we may not be able to tell how your tone might be through text but honey when you start say things like "Don't insult my intelligence, sweetie!" We know a neck roll was most likely connected to that statement.

What do we really have against each other? There is no reason to argue over personal preference or opinions, am I right? We are women who share a common interest and we can learn from each other. (The point of these groups in the first place!) It saddens me to see grown women with careers and children arguing over straight or natural texture and tearing other women down for liking the creamy crack (relaxer). At the end of the day it's about healthy hair and a healthier you, sis!

The Wrap-up

I wanted to keep this brief because though I could rant for days on this topic I'd rather talk about the more positive things about the natural hair community. So I hope we can start to encourage and build each other up more. Natural hair should be fun and having curlfriends is a cherry on top, who wants curlenemies? Not cute.

Thanks as always for reading!

Koily Kute ;-*